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Dreams

I dream of your touch while you’re away
I dream of your smile all through the day
I remember the day you came into my life
I dream the day you will be my wife
I dream of the day I can fall asleep next to you
I dream of the day we say I do
To be your husband To be together for life is a dream I have every night.

-Steven A. Barthell

AWWWWWWWWWWWWW 3 WEEKS LATER WHEN SHIT DOESNT GO YOUR WAY!!!!!!!!!

Stay Away

Leave me alone and stay away
I don't need you to say everything will be okay
You don't understand and you never will
You've never felt my fears
And your pain will never over fill
You will never shed as much tears
So stay away and leave me be
If you could just open your eyes and see
Things won't ever be the same
So just go the way yo came
And forever stay away! YA DUMB BITCH ASS

~Steven A Barthell



With relationships I have learned how to be by myself and I have also learned how to adjust to a person who I'm trying to spend my life with. But whatever situation I am in its always been a struggle and it has always been a learning experience. I am far from a perfect man and I will make mistakes here and there but I have never had any complaints about being a good boyfriend/man. But enough about me lol lets talk about teaching & learning this time around.

 One follower of my book “Women R Stupid N Men R the Reason" once said “Steven what does a relationship mean to you” and at first I thought of a bunch of cliches and things we always hear you know communication, sharing, caring and the other bullshit lol but a commitment is a little deeper than that and it is also stronger than people take it for. A relationship to me is about communication but just talking isn't communication you can not be afraid to tell the person you are with any and everything! No secrets should be kept and no disrespect while you are communicating…..Just talk do not attack! Attacking causes more problems its the same as pointing fingers & holding things in. You also have to listen to your bf/gf and pay attention to the words and body language they use.

 You have to remember this person in your life is new so you have to teach them. No not take them by the hand and baby them but let them know what you expect from the relationship and what you don't like! That's where communication comes into play again. Letting them just figure everything out on their own every time is very dangerous and will frustrate you but don't expect them to not tell you the same thing. Its all about give and take, you have to remember “hey this isn't just about me anymore” So I ask you what are you willing to do to get the relationship you want? Teach them how to love you and also learn to love them, I always say whats the point of getting into a relationship if you are not willing to fall in love? Why waste time just spending time together with no ending point?

 If you are not willing to do anything to comply with them then why are you in the relationship in the 1st place? I beg you not to waste anyone's time. You must know what you want or risk the chance of hurting someone tremendously in the process! All the things I stated will not happen overnight but should be worked on together. You are in a commitment and you are not in this by yourself anymore. Its not about being all over someone or stooping down to their every want and need! Its about balance and its about not meeting them half way but walking with them side by side and figuring out what the both of you need to do to make it work out. Be honest with yourself and him/her at all times. Being in a relationship is a privilege and is a choice! You can end it at anytime but think before you do? Is this person honest, do they treat me with respect, are they communicating with me, do they care, & why am I with them? I think the lines of breakups should consist of lack of respect, infidelity, lack of being honest, & not fitting your wants and needs or the bigger picture. But with that bigger picture is it worth losing someone special? 


This has been a 
Steven A Miami KONcept
3's up & 305 down

 SN: "The Method II My Madness: Women R Still Stupid & Men R the Reason" is still on the way! 
www.stevenabarthell.com to keep up

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