Last week we discussed can a healthy relationship last without sex.....according to the readers, listeners, followers etc this is an extreme lie! It cant be done....I agree....I stated in my last blog post "These Are The Times": "while sex is an important part of a relationship, in the end it's how you navigate the bad times that really define how strong your relationship is. Too many people are willing to bail when bad times happen because it's easy to fix with a legal procedure and piece of paper, and sex is readily available elsewhere." I also stated that their is nothing wrong with holding out on sex. But as soon as you give yourselves towards each other why stop completely?
Today via social networks I asked a few questions including If first date sex is acceptable and I asked why or why not....generally I know TONS OF PEOPLE who want it but are either ashamed to admit it or keep their secret inner freak on the low. Some put it down as if the top sin of life.
I will say this if you are looking for a commitment and marriage down the line then this is not the route to go! Things can turn into something special but who really wants to take that chance when it comes to love and your feelings? BUT!!!! IF all you want to do is a zoom zoom in the boom boom I dont see what the damn issue is...you're an adult (I'm assuming while you're reading this) Thats both for men and women NO DISCRIMINATION over here. If a woman is deemed a "hoe" for giving it up on the first night then so should the penis that partook in the sexy time. There's multiple definitions of hoes like those men and women who have sex with friends, associates, or family members. Thats just plain disrespectful and no excuse for it. Once again that's both men and women. If you're worried about people judging you then stop advertising all of your damn business.
Sex is very important and can be special and not taken for granted. Some just want to get it out the way; hell sometimes thats all people want. To be physical with another person without worrying about their feelings, time or anything else. I am a strong believer in the institution of marriage, love and all that other good shit but sometimes its best not to get caught up in the bullshit fairy tales we see on movies, television, read in books (not mines lol) or that we may vicariously live through ones Facebook or twitter pics.
What sucks is tons dont know how to be honest & upfront without bullshitting someone along the way. I've talked to a lot of women who stated "I know thats all he wants to do is fuck me" probably because its been that way since they started showing boobs in Middle School. Some men on the other hand don't know shit at times even when vagina is being thrown their way. Or we bullshit our way into the panties with the fake status' "Yes I'm a freak and I don't lie bullshit bullshit bullshit etc etc I'll pour apple jack milk down your booty crack *send*" Just to get some women in bed not realizing STUPID thats all she wants also. NOT ALL!!!!!
I had to say that because everything I write people get so defensive (uhh uh not me) YES YOU! STFU and just read or listen....if its not you then no point in getting mad; just give your opinion and keep it moving. I have noticed tons get mad because of their failed experiences with whatever topic I come up with *POINTS YES YOU!* On first dates: Make sure both of you understand each other's idea of 'eating out' Stay thirsty my friends!
For more don't forget to read the upcoming sequel to Women R Stupid & Men R the Reason
"Methods II My Madness: Women R Still Stupid & Men R the Reason" due this winter
Also the Fuck Fear Documentary coming real soon check out the trailer below
This has been another Steven A Miami KONcept
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