Embrace life & make sure we live it to the fullest! We should treat life like a photograph; meaning we should live everyday as if we were living inside a picture, because after all, no one ever takes pictures of the bad times right? Ok moving on wait for it wait for it wait for it boooooooooooooom!
As a man I feel like women will never fully understand the true pressure we have on us. Granted tons of men come up with excuses on why they are not "stepping it up" whether its "my daddy wasn't around", "Bitch you are so complicated" or "I'm doing me so she better just do her" I have to use a popular acronym SMH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! This is crazy and actually stupid and those three things are a few reasons women have no faith in us. But ladies some of you are very difficult to deal with; granted everything worth having is hard to get & keep MESSAGE!
As men we are the "providers", the head of the households, etc etc etc BUT UNTIL WE can accept that we have to work to make women believe this; these damn women WILL NEVER EVER understand...when we create excuses and continue proving them right WE look stupid as FUCK! We fail to realize that as "Kings & Queens" on this earth we have to work hard to cement the title. Chris Rock said it best:
"Relationships are hard, man. For order, for any relationship to work, both people have to be on the same page, both people have to have the same focus, and we all know what that page is. We all know what that focus is. In order for the relationship to work both people have to have the same focus, and what's that focus? That focus is all about HER! It's all about her! Fellas, when you wake up in the morning, you should look yourself in the mirror and say, "FUCK YOU! Fuck your hopes, fuck your dreams, fuck your plans … fuck everything you thought this life was going to bring to you. Now let's go out there and try to make this bitch happy" GRANTED THESE ARE JOKES!!!!!!! This is how it is we are MEN! So we have to act like it!
How do we act like men????? Easier said than done but here are a few ways I am learning to increase my manhood (no pun intended) and also how to further step my game up. The shit isnt easy especially with the women in 2012.
- Make real decisions.
A man understands and respects the power of choice. He lives a life of his own creation. He knows that life stagnates when he fails to decide and flourishes when he chooses a clear path. When a man makes a decision, he opens the door he wants and closes the doors he doesn’t want. He locks onto his target like a guided missile. A man doesn’t require the approval of others. He’s willing to follow his heart wherever it leads him. When a man is following his heart-centered path, it’s of little consequence if the entire world is against him.
- Be willing to fail.
A man is willing to make mistakes. He’s willing to be wrong. He’d rather try and fail than do nothing at all!
We have to learn how to grow more from failure than we do from success. Success cannot test the way that failure can. Success has its challenges, but a man learns more about himself when he takes on challenges that involve risk. When a man plays it safe, his vitality is lost, and he loses his edge.
- Be confident.
A man speaks and acts with confidence. He owns his attitude. When the odds of success are clearly against him, he still exudes confidence. It isn’t because he’s ignorant or suffering from denial. It’s because he’s proving to himself that he has the strength to transcend his self-doubt. We have to be willing to be defeated by the world. Willing to be taken down by circumstances beyond our control. But refuse to be overwhelmed by his own self-doubt. He knows that when he stops trusting himself, he is surely lost.
- Express love actively.
A man is an active giver of love, not a passive receiver. A man is the first to initiate a conversation, the first to ask for what’s needed, and the first to say “I love you.” We can no longer WAIT for women to take control! Its our job to share our love with the world. The woman in our life has to believe it! We have to make them believe
- Face your fears.
For a man, being afraid of something is reason enough to do it. A man’s fear is a call to be tested. When a man hides from his fears, he knows he’s fallen out of alignment with his true self. He feels weak, depressed, and helpless. I have been through and recently trying to get over it. FUCK FEAR! I am so obsessed with proving fear wrong & I am not afraid to die for the truth about myself or success #FUCKFEAR Fear is for the weak and the weak are for ppl with no guidance you have to have the mentality EITHER I AM going to succeed or fail!
- Accept responsibility for your relationships.
A man chooses his friends, lovers, and associates consciously. He actively seeks out the company of people who inspire and challenge him, and he willingly sheds those who hold him back. A man doesn’t blame others for his relationship problems. We have to hold ourselves accountable for the relationships we allow into our lives behavior. We have to teach others how to treat us by the relationships we are willing to allow into our life. Seefucyalata to a life with negative or destructive relationships!
- Die well.
A man’s great challenge is to develop the inner strength to express his true self. He must learn to share his love with the world without holding back. When a man is satisfied that he’s done that, he can make peace with death. But if he fails to do so, death becomes his enemy and haunts him all the days of his life. On a personal level I do not want to die in vain without leaving a awesome mark on this world!
Thank you for your time, your support and love
This has been another
Steven A Miami KONcept
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