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You Are the Weakest Link.........

September 3, 2011

You Are the Weakest Link........................Seefucyalata

Hello, may I speak to Barbara
Barbara, this is Shirley
You might not know who I am
But the reason I am
Calling you is because

I was going through my
Old man's pockets this morning
And I just happened to
Find your name and number

So woman to woman
I don't think it's being
Any more than fair to call you
And let you know where
I'm coming from

Now Barbara, I don't know
How you're gonna take this
But whether you be cool or
Come out of a bag on me
You see it doesn't really
Make any difference

But it's only fair
That I let you know that
The man you're in love with
He's mine

From the top of his head
To the bottom of his feet
The bed he sleeps in and
Every piece of food he eats

You see I make it possible
The clothes on his back
Ha ha, I buy them
The car he drives
I pay the note every month

So I'm telling you these things
To let you know how much
I love this man and woman to woman
I think you'll understand
How much I'll do to keep him
~Shirley Brown "Woman to Woman"

Good morning, good afternoon, goodnight what up what up what up wassssssssssssssup!
Hope all is well on your end and I hope everyone enjoys the Labor Day weekend....cookouts & iccccccccccccccccccccceeeeee cream! Thats how I want to spend mines :-) Wow & smh at the song above; Shirley done lost her damn mind! Paying for a car note of a cheater & admitting it to his mistress smh aint no way in hell man aint no way in hell wait for it wait for it wait for it booooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooom! Moving on with todays subject! Saying Seefucyalata to the weakest links in your life!

I am a true believer that the easiest part of a relationship is embracing it & having fun; while the hardest part is letting go of situations that are not good for you. You want to give people the benefit of the doubt & you also want to have faith in the person you have chosen to be in a commitment with. BUT! not every relationship is meant to last & not every situation is worth your energy; why settle for the crumbs when you deserve the whole damn cake! Meaning all of your wants & needs and if someone isnt giving you that then I suggest you use a term I use consistently in my book "Women R Stupid & Men R the Reason" SEEFUCYALATA! You can use it as an verb or an adjective its a very simple term telling someone who is no longer wanted or needed in your life to exit stage left or right whatever floats their boat or as my grandmother would say whatever makes you piss straight. wait for it wait for it wait for it booooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooom! Moving on! I'm in the car while I have members from Little Nigga University pissed off about what I'm gonna say next!

If a man or woman has you playing the role of boyfriend/girlfriend #2, side chick or booty call dick & if THIS IS NOT WHAT YOU WANT! Then it is time to say SEEFUCYALATA! If this is what you want, then more power to you & also good luck with the results. You are putting yourself at risk for multiple diseases & drama and also missing out on something special who knows; well you wont because you are settling for less than you deserve in my opinion *shrug* just my opinion dont get mad! Then again I dont give two shits & a fruitcake SEEFUCYALATA! But seriously if you are being forced to be in this position & DO NOT WANT to be then say SEEFUCYALATA & find a man/woman who is gonna give you the respect to be the one and only person in their life! Yes they're chameleons who lie and try to steal your heart but that is the gamble we partake once we feel we want to be in a relationship!!!!! Wait for it wait for it wait for it booooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooom! Moving on! I'm in the car while I have members from Little Nigga University pissed off about what I'm gonna say next!

We have to know when to say goodbye & have to be adults to pull the trigger on situations that are not fitting us best! Relationships are hard work and very difficult to deal with sometimes but the only way you are gonna conquer your fears of being hurt & get over your past is by being careful, taking your time and get shit done on your pace! Take chances, make mistakes & make it happen; either step up the stairs or stare at the steps to intimacy, commitment & eventually marriage nobody is going to hold your hand or make you do something you do not want to do. If you are dealing with someone who isnt embracing the relationship from the start or if they are letting their past reflect the future you two have together it might be best to first give them a chance to fix that shit or say SEEFUCYALATA! Wait for it wait for it wait for it booooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooom! Moving on! I'm in the car while I have members from Little Nigga University pissed off about what I'm gonna say next!

I love commitments, I love the art of love and I WILL BE MARRIED in the future but right now I am a witness to this blog & just living the bachelor life again until God sends my wife; no rush no complaints & no regrets! Know your worth, know when to pull the trigger when you are not happy & know when to say SEEFUCYALATA to the bullshit you do not want in your life!

This has been a
Steven A Miami KONcept
3s up & 305 down

Grab my debut book Women R Stupid & Men R the Reason more than just a controversial title! Very motivational, humorous & intelligent according to the reviews :-)

Comments

  1. MsTNTBSSeptember 3, 2011 at 7:13 PM

    I will be definitely checking back to read your work. Thank you!

    ReplyDelete
  2. MiamiSeptember 3, 2011 at 7:32 PM

    Thank you Yolanda I appreciate it :-)

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