The Fish & Grits Diary of a former Bitter Black Man

"The Methods II My Madness: Women R Still Stupid & Men R the Reason" For controversial purposes yesterday I directed my attention first towards the women and now its time for my attention towards men today in this preview.  ~Steven Earlier in the chapter we discuss  a list of relationship mistakes that women should stop making. The list was solid but a bit heavy on the progesterone I must admit but I can only write about what I see or have been through with women.  At any rate, in the name of making this space of my chapter fair and honest  I've compiled a list of stuff us dudes should probably quit doing in the name of healthy   love   and   relationships.  We dudes aren't perfect, we should squash a few relationship mistakes ourselves. 1. Watching TV, reading, surfing the internet checking up on likes or retweets and/or listening to music during an important conversation: Trust me, being able to recite the highlight...

I stated in my first book  Women R Stupid & Men R the Reason  that "we are all f***ing up" I also stated that its our responsibility as a generation to be accounted for all our mistakes and bad decisions. I share a sample of my next book "The Methods II My Madness: Women R Still Stupid & Men R the Reason"  of the mistakes we make over good sex & rushing to fast into situations. For controversial purposes I direct my attention first towards the women and then the men later in the book.  ~Steven It's said that the definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results. So, yes, we know that snooping around our spouse's Facebook account is a bad idea, that if we  and that believing in the  fairy-tale love  stories we grew up reading is silly, but sometimes we find ourselves giving these relationship moves  the ol' college try! The results? Not so successful. Plus, ...

I havent vented in a while so here goes When will we learn that shit is not going to be given to us?  When will we realize their is no such thing as a perfect relationship JUST PERFECT SITUATIONS that tend to mess up but can be fixed if its worth it  When will we stop blaming each other for why we do certain things blah blah blah "He did this; She did that" blah blah blah  Its crazy!  Fellas- When will we AS PEOPLE NOT INDIVIDUALS learn that just because we have a penis that we dont control who stays in or out in our relationships! We need to learn that saying the words "Im sorry" become null & void after we use them so many times its like saying good morning or goodnight the words become useless! No woman wants a sorry man! SORRY!..........When will we know the difference between hustling & grinding? Hustling will come back to get you and bite you the one that stinks and not the one that winks ;-)........Grinding is the result of hard work and going thru ...

Matthew Ganem In all honesty I don't know why I should be Boston's most eligible bachelor I think that should be answered by the women deciding it all I'm a father, poet and an author living in Boston. I work full time and take care of my handsome little man, when I don't have him I'm somewhere around the city with a Mic in my hand giving a voice to the voiceless. I am a heroin addict that has been clean for over six years turning my pain into poetry I open eyes about the struggle of my past and my redemption. I still play basketball, I'm 6 feet with hazel eyes and dark hair, covered with a tattoo or two. Matt Ganem Jacquie Martinez Hola, my name is Jacquie. I am 24 years old I college graduate currently attending grad school. Became a mother in 2012. Besides being a hard working lady I can also be handful, fun, and spontaneous. I have promoted clubs and also served as a bartender  in a couple of them.  I have managed and worked w/ numerou...