The Fish & Grits Diary of a former Bitter Black Man

Regardless of how it goes down Life goes on Am I right? On the way we shed some tears Every day we sacrifice So we can be standing here Oh what a hell of a life Been winning so many years And the future is bright Now it's very clear That we gon' be rich forever, and ever, and ever We gon' be rich forever We gon' be rich forever, and ever, and ever 2012 was an experience to say the least.....I have accomplished the following:  finding myself, testing myself & growing within myself...these are the Methods II My Madness Life will hit you with a ton of bricks and bullshit if you do not have the right shield to protect you. Super Bowl morning of this year February I received a call from my father that made me numb until this fall. "Steven Anthony died this morning; he's gone Im sorry" *blank stare* I felt my whole brain and soul crush within a instant minute. This was the man I grew up with, the one who taught me how to play basketball and talk t...

Fuck Fear Documentary & Soundtrack Over the summer I didn’t know what to do to kick my career or life up a notch and then I did the same thing I did when I released my debut book “Women R Stupid & Men R the Reason”  I had a drink, meditated and listened to music. Through this process I happened to float away into the social networking scene like I tend to do when I am supposed to be working. I then asked a question “What Are You Afraid Of?” nobody really responded until I said my famous “fuck it/seefucyalata” random rants lol. Unfortunately around this same time we had yet another murder in the city of Boston. The fear around us was taking over with full force. I wanted to make a stand! I wanted to show fear that it could not control us. Naturally when we have a killing in the city everyone wants to rally, march, have events etc. Why can’t we do this on the regular? I then thought and thought to myself “Fuck Fear!” Fear can be used for many acronyms: false evidence a...

If this world were mine I would place at your feet All that I own You've been so good to me If this world were mine I'd give the flowers the birds and the bees And it'd be your love beside me That would be all I need If this world were mine I'd give anything Luther Vandross- If This World Were Mine Remember when dating was innocent? The school dances? The love notes? Do you like me yes or no? CIRCLE ONE....the crazy thing about it we're grown now all that shit doesnt exist does it????? Embrace life & make sure we live it to the fullest! We should treat life like a photograph; meaning we should live everyday as if we were living inside a picture, because after all, no one ever take pictures during the bad times right? Here's todays topic about motives & sacrifice towards building a healthy relationship! In my book “Women R Stupid & Men R the Reason” I ask in the chapter “Court You, Learn, Love You, Marry You” what are your m...