The Fish & Grits Diary of a former Bitter Black Man

TIME TO MAN THE F*** UP!!!!!! End the "college/lets have fun/i'm gonna do me etc' shit! WOMEN NEED MEN! Not us posing as men. Its not what they can do for us; its what we can do for them and then you'll notice change. NO MANIPULATION! Just transform from BOY TO MAN! Its not just about ourselves. WHAT CAN YOU DO to make her happy? LEAD BY EXAMPLE AND if she doesn't follow suit then maybe she isn't the one for you! Its not what your mate can do for you; its what can you do for your mate; SET A FIX! See what you need and be the person you want them to be but do not expect them not to be them TRICKY I KNOW! Fellas I get it sometimes you feel overwhelmed to the point of breaking down. Sometimes you feel like giving up. And when you do, remember, it's okay to cry and to open up to others and when that's done, look in the mirror and smile. There's a reason you held on for so long with whatever struggles you went through whether if that was dea...