The Fish & Grits Diary of a former Bitter Black Man

November of last year I started working on a "progression blog" showing my improvement in eating habits, working out and changing my lifestyle. Without saying to much I definitely went through a storm between then and March. I went through a rough break-up, was laid off from a great company because of "going into a different direction" I put back on at least 10-11 lbs and was losing myself. I was angry & upset at my reflection, my thoughts on life, other people and of course myself in general. I felt like I was losing again! I couldn't get a grip on life and I was falling. Stressed out over failing again then something happened once again. God stepped in and said "Remember what happened when you believed in me and stopped worrying about your problems?" It definitely snapped me back into place. I let go and let God take the wheel. I let a friendship naturally turn into a relationship (We weren't expecting it nor was it planned) and 4 mo...