The Fish & Grits Diary of a former Bitter Black Man

Once again I hear that there is no such thing as a "Good Guy" which to me is corny and a cop out of a woman standing in front of her own shadow....then when I hear multiple women give there opinion "good guy" they make him seem as if he is a punk! or a softy or a fairy tale!!!!!!....I mean its like we and I say we because I think Im a good guy who does the right thing no matter what the past presented me (yeah i fall off time and time again but I bounce right back up like round balls) This "theres no good men out there" talk is becoming CRAZY AND QUITE BORING ok ok I know for a fact that most guys in todays society dont know what to do with a "Good Woman" if they fell outta the sky but what is a "Good Woman"???? which gets to today topic "YOU GET WHAT YOU ASK FOR and WHAT ARE YOU WILLING TO DO TO GET IT" Men always say "yo i just need someone to hold me down" or I need "a lady in the streets and a freak in the b...

Overall with my book coming out this spring and with the grinding I have been doing...I learned a few things about ppl 1. Some are crazy....2. Some are full of S***....3. Some are only here for a season or two....4 Some could care less about what I do or how I do and plenty of other things lol but thats for another blog.....I am so thankful for the experiences and the trials and tribulations that I have faced over the course of the 4 year journey of trying to find the answers for the "perfect relationship guide" lol at 1st i knew NOTHING! some basic things but overall NOTHING!!!!!! until I started paying attention to detail and how we ALL treat each other and it makes me sick to my stomach YES ALL OF US including ME! yes ME!!!!!! We have to realize that the only thing that is promised tomorrow is the Earth will continue to rotate around the sun....Life is too short and we say this but dont implement it......we think just because we have money or that we have a nice house or ...