The Fish & Grits Diary of a former Bitter Black Man

Once again I hear that there is no such thing as a "Good Guy" which to me is corny and a cop out of a woman standing in front of her own shadow....then when I hear multiple women give there opinion "good guy" they make him seem as if he is a punk! or a softy or a fairy tale!!!!!!....I mean its like we and I say we because I think Im a good guy who does the right thing no matter what the past presented me (yeah i fall off time and time again but I bounce right back up like round balls) This "theres no good men out there" talk is becoming CRAZY AND QUITE BORING ok ok I know for a fact that most guys in todays society dont know what to do with a "Good Woman" if they fell outta the sky but what is a "Good Woman"???? which gets to today topic "YOU GET WHAT YOU ASK FOR and WHAT ARE YOU WILLING TO DO TO GET IT" Men always say "yo i just need someone to hold me down" or I need "a lady in the streets and a freak in the b...

Overall with my book coming out this spring and with the grinding I have been doing...I learned a few things about ppl 1. Some are crazy....2. Some are full of S***....3. Some are only here for a season or two....4 Some could care less about what I do or how I do and plenty of other things lol but thats for another blog.....I am so thankful for the experiences and the trials and tribulations that I have faced over the course of the 4 year journey of trying to find the answers for the "perfect relationship guide" lol at 1st i knew NOTHING! some basic things but overall NOTHING!!!!!! until I started paying attention to detail and how we ALL treat each other and it makes me sick to my stomach YES ALL OF US including ME! yes ME!!!!!! We have to realize that the only thing that is promised tomorrow is the Earth will continue to rotate around the sun....Life is too short and we say this but dont implement it......we think just because we have money or that we have a nice house or ...

Tonite Is the Nite Ironically on this night there was a full moon. With its brilliant light shining into my bedroom window, I have a feeling its going to be a night to remember. The dinner was perfect, the drinks were right and I'm glad we decided 2 stay in instead of going out. Not saying a word to each other we knew tonight was going 2 B our night. Passion is what we were after as we were seeking to take each other to the limit, because on our night we plan to play with each others bodies as if they were musical instruments, on our night we will transcend our mortal beings to break down the barriers that separate us from ourselves. On this moonlit night I plan on fulfilling Ur every little fantasy and arouse your inner most passion. As I plan to speak no words. I want to communicate through our touch & intuition. We then kiss, the 1st touch is a small one the 2nd one a keeper. Our tongues meet. An electric current too important to ignore jolts between as we succumb to the mag...

Dear Ms.________________you yes you or maybe you: Ok Ok I know you have heard it all, You have seen it all, from being wined and dined to be taken on cruises and long vacation destinations.....I know that when I attemp to make you believe you question my motives I know how do I know? Because I've done it to ppl my damn self....I can tell you that I will always be there and never leave but that will be bullshit because its a promise I cant keep and I NEVER MAKE A PROMISE I CANT KEEP, because I FUCK UP TOO!!!!! and time and time again IM GONNA CONTINUE FUCKING UP!!! not a huge FUCK UP but little shit might get on your nerves every now & again, I might say some shit that will piss you off!!!!! I will might not show up on time when you need me, I might get dates messed up or I might snore or wake you up at the wrong time....While making love I might come up short one night but hey its not like that every night babes, ok im slacking because I have no car and I'm addicted to FACE...